Wednesday, May 16, 2012

But Will I Meet Harrison Ford? or the Romance of Travel


Why do so many romances take place in faraway lands? Is there something intrinsically romantic about visiting dirt-poor countries where the majority of the people still work at subsistence agriculture using stone age tools? Most of us would say not, yet many a romance does take a heroine to the old world, or the third world, or even to no world at all, if she happens to be on a cruise or get stuck on an island in the Pacific.

It’s standard that our romance heroine hobnobs with of the elite in these foreign climes. Depending on the era, the elite could be a batch of fellow tourists, a group of hardcore expatriates, or, most romantically, someone from the ruling class of that foreign country. A man with a title, perhaps. Or a man with a huge plantation. Possibly a man who is the master of some vast capitalistic enterprise.  

We like a romance heroine to taste something of the exotic. That’s why she falls in love with a man from a different land. But so she doesn’t have to go too far out of her comfort zone, and thus the reader’s, the man she loves is usually Western-educated, affluent, and forward-thinking about the role of women. In fact, like all romance heroes, he’s a bundle of appealing characteristics.

But why a romance while traveling? Where they’d live once married does automatically become a huge issue between them. Plus in theory the heroine could meet the same hot foreign guy when he comes to New York on business or pleasure. Or San Francisco. Or LA. Or London.

Possibly travel romances happen because when we leave our daily grind behind, our senses become heightened. We come more alive, and we notice all the details of our surroundings. We notice other people more, too. The excitement of seeing new places can also make us a little wired, a little more apt to be daring. For a heroine who feels straitjacketed by her social world at home, traveling can be an opportunity to try on a new style, both in clothing and in behavior. If the travel is missionary work or eco-tourism, she’s likely to come into contact with people who think as she does, whatever their country of origin. Being thrown together with a very small group of like-thinking individuals can lead to romance. So can meeting a man who seems her complete opposite, yet who turns out to have a heart full of love for her.

There also are numerous adventure romances in which the heroine needs rescuing in a foreign country, and an all-American guy is the man for the job. In these, the hero is a familiar type--perhaps a rugged archeologist like Indiana Jones--and the rigors or difficulties of being in a strange country test the heroine’s mettle. Once again, the foreignness of another country becomes key to the story.

There’s another reason romances are set in faraway places. Although most of us can find beauty in our normal surroundings if we look, familiarity tends to dampen their allure. When we visit new places, their sheer majesty strikes us. Even the dire contrasts between the well-heeled in their mansions or tourist hotels and the impoverished locals selling postcards on the streets strike an emotional chord. Our heroine may hate her job back home, but seeing barefoot women carrying bundles on their heads reminds her how enviable her position actually is. At the same time, seeing how the other half lives, really seeing it, can connect the romance heroine emotionally to the people around her. Which also explains how she can even consider throwing up her old life to make her future with that aristocratic stranger she meets while traveling. It does not quite explain why she'd consider doing the same with a man like Indiana Jones.




Copyright © 2012 Arrow Publications, LLC™. All Rights Reserved.

Saturday, April 28, 2012

Listen to Marcia Roberts on The Wellness Authors Show





Tune into the Wellness Authors Show at www.thewellnessshow.com this weekend to hear author Marcia Roberts talk about her book, “New Day: One Woman's Journey Through Domestic Violence”. Marcia is a teacher, a mother, a writer and a survivor of domestic violence and abuse. Her compelling story is a must for anyone caught in the cycle of abuse. Marcia’s book is available from Amazon.com and the App Store.

In the author’s own words:  “I am a survivor of domestic violence and abuse, but I am also a teacher, a mother and a writer. Because of all the great support I got during my four plus years of abuse, I would like to give back. I have compiled a story of my experience, based on current research and my own personal journals and emails that I kept for the last years of the experience, as recommended by my counselors at a local abuse center. I am looking for a way to get my work out there so maybe other women can benefit, and not feel so alone or quite so hopeless. There is little out there on the topic that is autobiographical, and yet, as a former victim, I can tell you that that is the very thing that abused women or men need, to convince them to get out. This story needs to be told, as do the stories of so many other women and children. Their voices need to be heard. My story is meant to be a mirror that might reflect reality to a victim who needs that clarity to be sure what to do next.”



—From Marcia Roberts’s journal




Author Bio:
Marcia Roberts is the daughter of a pastor and homemaker, the mother of five, a classically trained singer, a teacher, a writer and a domestic abuse survivor. It is through her own experiences that she can speak to this serious threat for many women and their families. She was inspired to write this book through her research on domestic violence and its effects on children in the classroom while working on for her teaching re-certification. It soon became evident from her research that her own children were the textbook models for children growing up in a domestic abuse environment. She wrote this book to help other families who are trapped in this same cycle of abuse. The book is the outgrowth of a journal she kept for three years to record her experiences and those of her children with her now ex-husband. Roberts is also the author of several children's stories and fables as well as some poetry, all of which she hopes to publish in the future.

Copyright © 2012 Arrow Publications, LLC™. All Rights Reserved.